It was actually very healing for me. The priest was lovely and loving and he chose to speak about Jesus crying from the cross "My God, My God, Why have you forsaken me?!" Which was such a good reminder as we sat there mourning my young cousin.
My Uncle composed himself to speak, and did so, reminding us of the my cousin as a very young child, shy but always smiling. A happy boy. He was. My Uncle reminded those in attendence, especially the young people who had come to honor Eddie, to live with love in their hearts.
My Aunt & Uncle opened up their amazing home to us all and then stood there and did more consoling of others than they did receiving consolation. They are always like that. Immeasurably gracious.
We left and my husband noted; "your Aunt looks amazing. She's grieving and she looks amazing." And she did. I will have to remember to tell her that later on.
I am grateful to my friends, online and in person, who have left me such kind words. Thank you.
2 comments:
Your aunt and uncle sound like absolutely amazing people. I wish I could be more gracious like that. Again, I am sorry for your loss and I hope you and your family are at peace.
Your Aunt and Uncle sound like very strong people. I am sorry for your loss but it is wonderful you have such a great family to help through this difficult time.
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